I got this recipe from Aunty Renuka, a very nice aunty who, among other things, is an awesome cook.
Ingredients:
1 cup self rising flour
3 cops milk powder
heavy whipping cream
that makes 80-90 balls
1) mix ingredients for tight dough
2) make into balls
3) deep fry in low heat
Syrup:
Ingredients:
2 cups sugar
4 cups water
cardimum/saffron (optional)
1) boil sugar water
2) blot oil from balls
3) put balls in syrup
Filling
Ingredients:
chopped cashews, raisins, apricots, pistachios too.
Paneer (see other section)
1) mix w/paneer
2) mix w/nuts + roll into small balls
3) use regular gulab jamun dough for outer layer
4) deep fry!
Paneer
1) boil milk
2) put lemon juice
3) drain + keep whey (curd?) (just like in rasagulla)